The Problem of Authenticity



It's trash day!

Time to kind by your head for beliefs which were hanging round in there because you had been itty bitty.

Time to determine whether or not the beliefs rattling round in your head are actually working effectively for you, and in the event that they proceed to information you in making good choices in your life.
Maybe some s'plaining … and an instance of what I'm speaking about …

I've been an expert in my neighborhood for over 20 years, and have executed my share of enterprise networking, turn out to be seen, dependable … worthwhile, and develop my enterprise!

… by standing round in a room filled with different professionals … making an attempt to not appear like a vulture … or inversely … making an attempt to not appear like a scared little bunny rabbit … and never get ateen by one of many vultures that encompass you!

A number of years in the past a self-proclaimed networking "guru" advised me as a way to achieve success within the enterprise / skilled world what I wanted was a enterprise swimsuit and a great pair of heels!

So I attempted that technique for a number of years. I attempted arduous to consider I used to be somebody aside from who my intestine advised me I used to be, and all I can say is …

The enterprise technique not solely didn’t work effectively for me, however I by no means felt in any means genuine whereas I used to be training it, and it resolved in bi-lateral bunion and hammer-toe surgical procedure to restore the injury executed to my ft by the heels !

And there's the important thing!

Authenticity …

Genuine definition at, a free on-line dictionary

not false or copied; real ; actual


I’m, in truth, a hippie from the sixties and my fashion is earthy, goddess, outdated crone … Babba Yaga … for those who get my drift!

It’s so, so, so essential to remain true to who you’re in how you reside your life, and the selections you make for your self! And as a way to do this, it's essential to take inventory of what you consider who you’re and what suits for you so that you might be authentically who you select to be!

That requires being conscious of the beliefs you habitually maintain, weeding by them, and tossing out those that don’t serve your wants and don’t apply to you anymore!

What do you consider? Have you ever checked out fairly what’s roaming round upstairs in your pondering, an found out no matter what you assume and consider is congruent with who you’re?
Time to take out the trash!

Coach Char